The tradition of a bridal shower seems to have come from the Dutch. It is said that a Dutch bride married her lover even though her father refused to give her a dowry since she had intended to marry a poor man. Her friends got together and 'showered' the couple with gifts for their home to help them begin their new lives together.

Traditionally, it is the role of the bridesmaids and maid of honor to organize the bridal shower. A good wedding consultant can also help with preparations for the shower. It is best to consult with the bride about who she would like to attend the party. When you choose a theme it would be best to choose a theme that reflects the bride's interests and her personality.

Here are a few ideas to get you started with planning the bridal shower. Have a lingerie shower! Have everyone bring and wear an article of clothing that is associated with sleepwear like slips, teddies, nightgowns, pajamas, etc. Put your sense of humor to work for you! Whatever you bring give one to the bride as a gift as well.

A romance shower is fantastic as well. Give the bride items that will inspire romance in her married life. The couple might like satin sheets, champagne, bath bubbles, candles, and maybe even his and her vouchers for a spa. A sweet memories shower is another great option. All guests take a turn telling the story of how they met the bride, their special moments together, etc. All of these can be recorded, and put together with photos in a scrapbook for the bride to enjoy forever.

A music shower is another unique idea for the bride who is a music lover. Everyone brings a few cds and play their favorite songs for the bride, or songs that remind them of her. Make sure there is a cd player and get a list before the shower of songs that will be played. For the wine lover a wine shower might be nice as well. Have each guest bring a bottle of their favorite wine to share with the bride and friends.